She shared four different ways we could go about attracting a soulmate: it begins with us.
The first way, according to Hope, is to heal.
You need everything to show itself in the full light of day so you can heal.
What am I supposed to learn?
Why did I meet this person on a deeper level?"
Doing so covers the second way to attract a soulmate.
“What patterns, characters, themes keep repeating in yourlove life?”
What is revealed isn’t always pretty, and we need to show ourselves compassion.
“Self love is the key tofinding love,” she says.
“One must have a great relationship with the self and marry oneself first.
If you have a donut hole and want another to fill it you are in dangerous territory.
You must see it like you are a perfect cake and the soulmate is icing on it.”
Hope expanded upon this notion of being whole before dating so that you seek companionship, not completion.
