It doesn’t come from the way we look or how many likes we get on social media.

It’s based on something internal, not external."

Make eye contact with others.

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Pay attention to what’s going on around you.

Thenreallypay attention to your intuition.

It’s there for a reason," Parrish said.

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“Be aware of what’s around you at all times.

She added, “Being intoxicated never helps.”

If you get winded too soon, an attacker may be able to catch up with you.

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You don’t want that!”

Your life is a lot more valuable than even a Birkin bag.

She explained that the fist and grip is weakest where the thumb meets the fingers.

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If the assailant’s thumb is pointing upward, yank upward.

If it’s facing right, yank right.

If it’s downward, yank down.

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You’re most likely to make a quick, clean break if you follow the thumbs.

Parrish says, “The thumb points to the exit.”

With your other arm, grab his same-side elbow and pull him towards you.

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You’ll flip him over and end up on top.

Then immediately back away and get outta there!

you’ve got the option to get a closer look at thisisolated part of the movement here.

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“If running is an option always take that first,” Parrish warned.

“Remember: Self-defense isn’t about hurting anyone else, it’s about keeping ourselves safe.

Defend yourself as a last resort and run as soon as you could.”

Pro tip: If you want “help,” never actually yell the word “help.”

Instead, yell “fire.”

Remember, [attackers] are looking for a easy target, not a fight or attention."

There is even research on why this works.