Attraction is a complicated, messy thing.

But when it comes to attraction, the way people behave is just as important as physical appearance.

These are the behaviors that attract women the most.

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is something that is old fashioned, but never goes out of style."

She revealed that men like when women allow them to do things like open doors and tight jars.

Hear that, guys?

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They’re looking for connection.

Showing competence

There’s nothing like a partner who really knows their stuff.

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To really see someone in their element, passionate and excelling, is something women find particularly attractive.

Women are attracted to men who are primed to succeed, in whatever way that might be defined."

This one may seem like a no-brainer, but honesty and transparency in dating and relationships can be tricky.

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How much is too much to share up front?

How can you know if someone is being honest with you if you’ve just met them?

Clinical psychologist and relationship expertDr.

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Carla Marie Manlyshared that women are right to be on the lookout for dishonesty on a date.

So how can you tell if someone is honest, transparent, and trustworthy?

Look for the small clues, not outright lies.

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After all, a woman wants adventure, but she also wants to feel safe.

Showing emotion

Emotions everyone has them, so why hide them?

Still, many people do and that can be hard in a relationship.

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That’s why showing emotions is a behavior that many women find attractive.

It comes down, in part, to vulnerability.

According to Winston, “A man who is a mix of alpha and beta is attractive to women.

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Powerful is sexy, but so is vulnerable.

The mix is irresistible.

The ability to clearly communicate their feelings is also a turn-on and very sexy to women.”

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According to Licensed Professional CounselorDr.

Margo de la Garza, the most attractive partners are those who don’t shy away from conflict.

She added, “They don’t sweep issues under the rug.

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According to Concepcion, it’s this second step that women really find attractive.

Evolutionarily it speaks well to his ability to be giving and sharing and care taking.”

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