We’ve all been there, anticipating the exchanging of “I love you’s.”

It’s stressful in any situation, but when you’rethe Bachelor, the pressure is really on.

We’re looking at you,Matt James!

Ben Higgins on The Bachelor

“I just think I’ve learned from that.”

On the finale, Ben had two equally smitten ladies Lauren BushnellandJoJo Fletcher vying for his final rose.

“I feel like I’ve felt this way for a long time,” she began.

Ben Higgins on The Bachelor

“But I am completely in love with you.”

They then kissed and held each other, basking in their mutual adoration.

“I just don’t ever want to think about what it would be like to lose you.”

Ben Higgins on The Bachelor

And with a look of pure shock, JoJo went in for a passionate kiss.

I just think it was unwise; a little manipulating.

To make matters worse, their split was the most Googled celebrity breakup that year, according toRefinery29.

“Maybe the whole experience… brought me to where I’m at today.”