American men find some seriously bizarre behaviors attractive, science has proven.

Although some behaviors have widespread appeal, that’s notalwaysthe case.

Yes,different parts of the worldhave totally different views on what is considered “attractive.”

Couple Smiling

Well, if you’re wanting to attract a guy, keep that up.

There was no effect for women using hormonal contraceptives,“the researchers said.

Or, you know, to the wrong person or at the wrong time or in the wrong way.

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But science says that it’s not always so weird.

“Then they [stared] silently into each other’s eyes for four minutes.”

The experiment led to the couple falling in love and getting married just half a year later.

Couple looking at each other

Maybe that’s where the whole “love at first sight” idea came about.

Never mind that it can be unattractive if your hands demonstrate a lack of confidence.

That said, talking with your handscanmake you seem more attractive to American men if you do it right.

Couple Talking

“Don’t let your hands dictate what they’re going to do.

Instead, be in control of your hand gestures just like you are the rest of your body language.

So long as you’re confident in your gestures, they can serve you well.

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Keep them out of your pockets and use them with intention, Harbinger recommended.

Wearing red attracts American men

Simply put: Red is a sexy color.

It’s long been associated with love, passion, and sex.

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None of us are the same; we all have our unique qualities.

Still, there are still socially accepted norms for better or worse.

), women who choose not to conform to gender norms are actually intriguing to many American men.

Couple Smelling Perfume

That’s right, folks.

He explained that men would love this “good stuff” women tend to keep to themselves.

“Pleasant aromas can actually stimulate parts of the brain directly connected to sexual desire,” he explained.

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Cosmosurveyed 463 men to uncover the power of a woman’s choice of scent.

“It can feel like nobody will notice you among all those bubbly extroverts.

The way I think of it: Extroverts sparkle, introverts glow.

Couple in Bed

If you appreciate your own quiet glow, other people will see it, too.”

And they also enjoy substantive conversation, which lends itself to deeper connections while dating.

And it’s up to the parties involved to decide how much dirty talk istoomuch dirty talk.

Couple drinking coffee

Like everything else in life, balance is key.

We’re not saying you should copyeverythingyour date says like a game of “Simon Says.”

However, science indicates that mirroring a man’s actions can work wonders.

“you might even experience people matching pitch, tone, blink rate, and breathing.”

According to one study cited byPsychology Today, men are more attracted to women who mimic their behaviors.

Mirroring doesn’t have to be a big to-do.

We know that this sounds kind of weird but the science shows it works.

You may even notice that this behavior just sort of naturally happens.