But things are a little different in 2020 (okay, more than just “a little”).

However, if thisisnews to you, it’s for good reason.

Kaling kept her second pregnancy a secret, not revealing the news until after Spencer’s birth.

Mindy Kaling and BJ Novak posing at Vanity Fair Oscar party

She dropped the bombshell during an appearance onTheLate Show With Stephen Colbert(viaYouTube).

Novak showing up at their door dressed as Santa Claus.

“This is like cultural appropriation on our part, to be Christian,” she joked.

Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak smiling at an event

The relationship between Mindy Kaling and B.J.

Novak is weird as hell.

He is not my boyfriend, but he is not my best friend.

Mindy Kaling and BJ Novak appearing together at BookCon

But Kaling has confirmed that Novak has really stepped up to the plate, godfather-wise.

And he’s like ‘Oh, my God, don’t tempt me.'"