I have great love and respect for Tom and for our years and the lives we built together.

Previously, it seems the writer and singer had nary a negative thing to say about her husband.

He’s a f*****g good man.

Erika Girardi

And that is the most important thing."

We know our jaws are on the floor, too.

I don’t care what it is.

Erika Girardi

You name it'" (viaMSN).

We also don’t know if the eyebrow-raising drama will be part of any storylines onRHOBHepisodes.

“High drama,” the blonde beauty captioned a shot of herself.

Erika Girardi

That is for sure.

It’s gonna be all Tom’s way, I assure you.

He’ll rip that piece of paper to shreds in two seconds!"

RHOBH

She also requested that she not have to pay support to him.

Finally, a source toldUs Weeklythe divorce actually makes sense so perhaps it isn’t a sham.

Erika has gained independence and confidence from being onReal Housewives of Beverly Hills.

The exposure it has given for her singing career has given Erika a much larger fan base."