Being in a relationship, even a healthy one, comes with its share of challenges.
The opposition can make everything seem even more difficult.
Here’s some tips for how to deal when your friends don’t like your man.
You might be surprised by some of the things that come out of their mouth.
It might give you some clarity in terms of how your expectations differ from theirs.
When your availability suddenly changes because you are spending time with a new man, resentment can start brewing.
Pro tip: Be honest without yourself and determine whether you’ve been neglecting your friendships.
If so, apologize, acknowledge the situation, and make plans to catch up with your squad!
Pro tip: double-check you ask for clarification from your friends or your man, if you should probably.
There’s nothing wrong with mulling things over and admitting that things need to improve.
Still, if your friends are worried about you, a little reassurance can go a long way.
A real friend would want to know the truth.
Let them know how much it means to have them in your life and see if things improve.
Once your boundaries are clear in your own mind, share this with your inner circle.
This could, of course, backfire so use your best judgment.
If it goes well, try something more interactive the next time!
Take a proactive approach and remove any toxic people from your life.
If it keeps happening, follow through on what you said you would do.
No one else needs to understand or approve of your unique dynamic.
Never let your man feel threatened or attacked by your friends and don’t let him fight those battles.
Set your boundaries, make your peace, and commit to your own happiness.
Your sanity (and man) will thank you for it!
