Modern technology has made dating complicatedin so many ways.

Most of us who have been in a relationship have been there at one point or another.

Should you read his texts?

Woman on cell phone

Is there ever a good reason for snooping through your boyfriend’s phone?

Holland warned that going through your boyfriend’s private information puts your relationship at risk.

Psychotherapist Michele Paiva toldBustlethat people who go through their boyfriend’s texts are in need of validation.

Woman snooping on phone

“Snooping means you lack trust in yourself,” she said.

“These all erode the core foundations of love and trust that support a relationship in being solid.”

Instead of reading your boyfriend’s texts, have a conversation with him.

Woman reading boyfriend’s phone

Honest communication is much better than going behind his back and snooping through his phone.