When it comes to love,Matt Jamescertainly doesn’t do things half-heartedly.

Fans have noticed that the Bachelor takes his time with his choices and carefully considers each contestants' feelings.

Apparently, his upbringing has a lot to do with his method.

Matt James and Tyler Cameron

“I saw whatinfidelitylooked like at a young age.

When James gives someone his word, he means it.

His upbringing is also something that he wants to share with the contestants on the show.

Bachelor Matt James posing

The outlet reports that during the season, James explained this to the women in the house.

I’mcourtingthem, but they’re [also] courting me,” he said.

Apparently, sharing all of his life experiences has been a situation that the Bachelor didn’t expect.