“That kind of stress increases the likelihood of mis-communicating, especially in more subtle, non-verbal ways.”
If you’re taking on this role, you understand that wedding planning can get very stressful.
“Weddings are surprisingly complicated, highly detailed events,” said Gay.
“I help couples create the atmosphere they want at their wedding.
How does she suggest a maid of honor support on the big day?
It’s not about you.”
Sure, but sometimes the truth hurts.
She also suggests to work with the bride as she may want to help or even take the lead.
From there she said, “be upfront and don’t expect to foot the bill for everything.
Just let the maids know how they can pay you and when you need it.
People going unpaid usually stirs resentment.”
Don’t be afraid to ask if you should be doing certain tasks.
Take it from me, and ensure the expectations are clear!
