Racing to get married is dangerous not just for your relationship, but also your own sanity.
Here are just a few reasons why you shouldn’t exchange vows too quickly.
However, that’s not an actual reason to get married.

That’s a really long time.
If it’s possible for you to’t see past the party, you’re not ready for the commitment.
Wedding costs aside, marriages are expensiveespecially if you don’t have a prenup.

If that person is your partner, it may cost you big time.
At least give yourself enough time to protect your own assets in case Mr. or Mrs.
Wonderful turns out to be Mr. or Mrs. Wrong, okay?

If not, cut your losses and wait for someone with patience.
Is this really what you want ‘til death do you part?
It takes a long time, possibly years, toreallyget to know the person you’re dating.

Incompatibility is difficult to deal with when you already have a legally binding contract to stay together.
What if after the wedding you find out you’re not on the same page about kids?
Not respecting your partner’s wishes or boundaries means you’re not mature enough to be in a relationship.

Marriage may make one or both of you briefly happy, but those issues will certainly return.
Breaking up is hard to do, but you know what’s even harder to do than that?
Real life isn’tJerry Maguire.

to make it find a partner who’s worth their salt, you have to completeyourselffirst.


