So you’re finally going out with that person you’ve been eyeing… now what?
), so beginning on a positive note is key.
That being said, showing up on time is important.
Ladies, “be sexy, but don’t let it all hang out.
“Fifty percent of the airtime is yours, so stay above 30 percent and below 70 percent.”
Psychology Todayseconds this notion, further explaining the importance of showing interest in the person in front of you.
“Asking questions conveys engagement,” writes psychologist Guy Winch.
If you’re shy or unsure about what to ask, think of topics ahead of time.”
If the person you’re with isn’t talking much, try open-ended questions," Winch added.
“A drink or two is fine, but check that you stay present and in control.
“Either way, you lose.
It is important to be sure of yourself.
Confidence is contagious but the absence of it cannot be hidden.
Be confident in who you are.
A real man will find that sexy!”
Apparently it’s pretty hot.
Confidence seems to be the one thing that most people find extremely attractive.”
It’s only “permissible to pull out your phone three times on a date.
“Not because you want to get married and have kids he does, too!
but because you sound needy and desperate and tone-deaf to the normal conventions of first dates.
You know what a first date is for?
That’s all.”
Having bad manners
Bad table manners are a huge no-no on any date.
“Most of us know saliva breaks down food we don’t need to see a demonstration of it.
Either he will “talk in concrete terms about a future plan.”
kiss you or follow up within 48 hours.
As time goes by, “things can change,” he adds.
But never on the first few dates, because it can be taken the wrong way.”
