That doesn’t necessarily mean that love won’t develop as you spend more time together, however.

Besides, falling in love is fun!

Enjoy every minute of it instead of rushing it.

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If you’re hoping it will ignite their emotions, you’re only setting yourself up for disappointment.

She further explains, “It will only make them uncomfortable and maybe make them feel suffocated.”

Unfortunately, for someone who was hurt that can result in a reluctance to commit.

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AsPsychology Todayexplains, “Not everyone develops love or expresses it at the same pace.”

It might seem harsh, but it’s an important lesson.

As a professional matchmaker she insists, “Make them prove themselves first before giving your love away.”

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You don’t want someone to stay with you out of obligation or guilt.

You want someone to love you because you’re awesome and they see it.

Who knows, at that point,you might not want their affections any longer.

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