Still others have been pretty awful (is anyone a fan of Juan Pablo?)

and a few were just messy sorry,Pilot Pete.

So strap in because here’s what you don’t know aboutThe Bachelor’sMatt James.

Matt James smiling

What I’m looking for in a woman isn’t race specific."

One thing’s clear: Matt is truly looking for love.

Did this Bachelorette call Matt James out online?

Chris Harrison and Matt James

And perhaps as a result, Clare took to her own social media to seemingly call it out.

As reported byPeople,“many fans assumed the message was aimed at James specifically.”

She thenposted again, writing, “Respect the opportunity you’ve been given.

Matt James

Matt would not go on to appear on Clare’s season.

He found himself in Pittsburg, taking the role of a corporate and institutional banker with company PNC.

We love a man who is driven.

Matt James on The Bachelor

As if we didn’t love him enough already.

“I met a group of ‘kids’ who were students from a local neighborhood elementary school P.S.

“This occasion marked the first food tour… the rest is history!”

Matt James walking

“Going to Wake also cultured me,” Matt said in an interview with his alma mater.

“I didn’t expect [the prayer] to be such a hot-button of interest.

“I think what you’re going to look for is someone who kind of resembles his mother.

Matt James standing

“That’s what Matt’s going to do he’s going to change the world.”

Is that not the cutest thing or what?

We love him, if you haven’t been able to tell.

Matt James smiling

“The most interesting text I got was probably from my third-grade teacher.

We truly wouldn’t know how to react if our third grade teacher ever texted us.

He added, “The community really rallied around us and made sure I had what I needed.”

Matt James posing

“I am so proud of him.

But honestly, give this man some physical therapy and some Advil stat.

As noted byPage Six,Tylerposted a videoon his official YouTube page shortly before Matt’s season ofThe Bachelorpremiered.

Matt James praying on The Bachelor

What were they doing?

Getting waxed, of course.

And what did they have in mind as to what the experience was going to be like?

Matt James and his mother

“I saw40-Year-Old Virginand that looked painful, and that’s what I was going for,” Tylersaid.

We can only wonder what these two will get up to next.

Tyler Cameron and Matt James

Matt James on The Bachelor

young Matt James and his mother

young Matt James

Tyler Cameron and Matt James