So you’re finally over your old flame.

But there isn’t exactly a line of suitors knocking at your door.

You’ve got to take matters into your own hands, and the digital age calls for digital dating.

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Maybe at this point you’ve downloaded an app (or two or three) andset up your profile.

Luckily, we’ve got some spark-starting conversation openers for you.

Firstly, do not do the “hey…” It’s lazy and ineffective.

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Instead, do some research on their profile and use that information to kick things off.

Do they like a band or movie you like?

Ask them about that.

or “What are you greatest strengths and weaknesses?”

A lighter approach could be, “When was the last time you giggled uncontrollably and why?”

Maybe you both like hiking, playing video games, or just eating.

Or maybe you have nothing in common and should let this one go.

Whatever the case, you should probably ask questions to get started (viaBustle).