That’s why they called off their engagement, Henson explained toThe Breakfast Club.

“We have to first learn how to make ourselves happy to make each other happy.

“You have to still stand up for yourself and be there for yourself.

Taraji P. Henson and Kelvin Hayden

But it’s hard to do if the other person is doing that part either.

That’s why relationships are so difficult they’re difficult.”

As the months progressed, their relationship continued to unravel.

Taraji P. Henson and Kelvin Hayden

“I’m dedicated to the black man, y’all.

I was, like, therapy.