Nonetheless, it’s almost time for the moment whenMatt Jameswill decide between Rachael and Michelle as his winner.

Note the word “winner,” not “wife.”

has gone on to marry the woman he initially proposed to:Sean Loweto Catherine Giudici (viaInsider).

Matt James posing

By comparison,The Bacheloretteis a romantic’s paradise.

So why has it been so tough for these men to find their perfect partner?

She explains that a number of issues may be at play here.

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For the guys, the thrill of the chase is often their motivation.