The Duggar familyhas a lot of rules around dating and marriage that seem unusual to those on the outside.

In fact, the Duggars don’t believe in modern dating at all.

Instead, the Duggar kids go through the process of courting.

Jessa Duggar and Ben Seewald smiling

About those physical relationships?

Courtships in the Duggar family mean no contact beyond the occasional side hug.

That means that for many couples in the family, theirfirst kissis at the altar.

Jessa and Ben Seewald kissing

Jessa was the third of Jim Bob and Michelle’s 19 children to enter a courtship.

Jessa and Ben’s is no exception.

Understandably, that many people bring a certain degree of pressure that might dampen the moment.

Instead, the two decided to share their first kiss privately (perUs Weekly).

Then, they came back to share a kiss in front of their guests.

“Our first kiss was nice and slow and romantic,” Jessatold TLCcameras after the fact.

“And I’m sure we’ll be doing a lot more kissing from here on out!”

That certainly seems to have been the case.