By all accounts, theChristina on the Coaststar and the soon-to-be new Mrs. El Moussa areon very good terms.

“No, no exes at the wedding,” El Moussa toldEntertainment Tonight.

In fact, the wedding is going to be small, and not on TV.

Christina Anstead

“Less distractions, more intimate, better conversations with the people around us.

You know, we just think smaller is better,” theFlip or Flopstar explained.

It turns out Anstead wasn’t initially consulted before her ex proposed to Young in July (viaToday).

Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young

We don’t need to sit down with her and discuss that."

Nonetheless, Anstead toldE!

Newsaboutfinding out about the engagement, “Of course!

And I couldn’t be happier for them.

They’re very happy.”

No word on how she feels about being excluded from the wedding guest list.

In fact, he found out about the surprise ceremony when photos emerged online.

It was kind of like, I was really okay with it.