Shonda Rhimes' shows are often a combination of dramatic, heartfelt, suspenseful, and even funny.
Rhimes' shows often have their own rhythm to them and even their own language.
and thus, a new term for vagina was born (viaHuffPost).

They wouldn’t OK the word “vagina” being said on TV.
“Shonda’s argument was like, ‘We said ‘penis’ in that episode 97 times.
“They were like, ‘Yep, yep, you might’t say ‘vagina.’

So she came up with ‘va-jay-jay’ and that’s how that problem was solved.”
you’ve got the option to’t say that Rhimes isn’t a creative problem-solver.
Without those fences, even, the term vajayjay would not have even existed, she acknowledged.

And what’s Rhimes doing first?
But whatever word they use, it will be strictly of Rhimes’ choosing.