Here is the truth about their relationship.

Brandon was instantly smitten, saying on90 Day Fiancethat he “fell in love immediately.”

Brandon knew right away that Julia was someone special.

Brandon and Julia smiling

“I couldn’t stop thinking about her,” he said.

“And my first message to her was, ‘You look like my future wife.'”

“It just enticed me,” he said, adding, “I quickly knew.

Brandon holding Julia’s hand

I had to be with this girl.”

In fact, she was reluctant to even speak to him at first.

At first, Julia thought the friend was hitting on her and said she wasn’t interested.

Julia and Brandon smiling

When Brandon’s friend assured her that he already had a girlfriend, Julia kept speaking to him.

“I just like [gave a] stupid smile,” the90 Day Fiancestar said.

“So, I went for it.”

Brandon in an interview

Unfortunately, things did not go as smoothly as they had hoped.

When Julia applied for a visitor’s visa to the U.S., it was denied.

This, of course, posed a problem since Julia and Brandon were not engaged.

Julia looking at Brandon

Instead, Brandon invited Julia on a romantic getaway to Iceland where he asked her to be his wife.

Brandon was not on board with the idea at first, so this took some convincing.

“I’m not somebody who craves the limelight,” he toldThe Progress-Index.

Julia and Brandon posing

Julia, on the other hand, “loves the attention,” said Brandon.

“Next thing I knew… we were doing it,” said Brandon.

To others, it could mean buying them flowers.

Julia and Brandon smiling

Brandon proved his love for Julia by going into debt.

“I spent almost $10,000 in seven months,” he said (viaCheatSheet).

When visiting Julia at her apartment in Russia, Brandon made the mistake of walking in with shoes on.

Julia sitting on bed with Brandon

It’s understandable that Julia would be annoyed by this, but she overreacted a bit.

In Brandon’s words, Julia “almost f***ing stabbed” him.

Brandon seems to be resigned to Julia’s temper.

Julia touring Brandon’s family farm

“But this is not happen,” she said.

Brandon convinced Julia to give herself more time to adjust to her new life.

The critics denounced Brandon’s family business as a puppy mill, but Julia was not having it.

Julia staring on 90 Day Fiance

Julia clapped back at the detractors on her private Instagram account.

She said they “live better than many people” (viaScreen Rant).

Brandon’s mom proved to be particularly controlling early in the relationship.

Brandon sitting with his parents

Brandon’s mom even went so far as tocall her gynecologistabout getting birth control for Julia.

She also insisted on Brandon and Juliasleeping in separate roomsbefore their wedding, something Julia was not happy with.

Not everyone in Brandon’s family is so conservative, though.

Julia and Brandon smiling

“I’m 87 years old… “The only thing I want is to be left alone by Larissa,” he said in 2020.

“She got so worried.”

While Brandon’s parents truly seemed to like their future daughter-in-law, Brandon’s grandfather still had reservations.

Brandon talking to his mom

“My mother can definitely be overbearing,” he said (viaCheatSheet).

“Which is why I think they’ll kind of butt heads and clash.”

“Poor girl she’s got a wussy guy.

Julia kissing Brandon

Another told Brandon to “cut the cord,” saying, “I know you love your mom.

Brandon went so far as to warn people not to embark on a similar relationship.

Brandon staring at Julia