Do you want to know the real, unspoken truth about waiting until marriage?
Her husband’s non-virgin status made the decision difficult at times, she admitted.
This meant she wasn’t necessarily planning to wait all the way until her wedding day.
“Who would’ve thought I’d save it until marriage!”
Popular YouTuber Milena Ciciotti said she personally made the decision to abstain from sex while still in middle school.
“I think I was 12 or 13 years old,” she recalled inone of her vlogs.
One person posted theWhisperconfession: “I waited until marriage, so did my husband.
Wasn’t a religious choice.
And yes, it was totally worth it.”
Others, though, wished they’d made a different decision.
She went on to concede that some four years later, she and her husband have grown apart.
“I wish I hadn’t put so much pressure on myself to be a virgin.
If I could go back and change it, I would,” she added.
Still, many of those who have waited say the pros outweigh the cons.
“Yes, I waited until marriage.
Yes, it was very hard.
Yes, it was worth it,” another person admitted onWhisper.
And for those who don’t, the regret can be very,veryreal.
“And I have never felt that empty ever again ever again in my life,” she added.
Of course, these feelings don’t just affect those who originally committed themselves to abstinence.
Lastly, there’s the group that practices the “everything but” method.
Similarly, 39-year-old Rebecca K. said first-time sex with her hubby was “pretty underwhelming.”
She admitted it took about a month before she was able to enjoy it.
Even though the experience may be pretty awkward for the newlyweds, that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
There are definite perks
There are unmistakable benefits that come with waiting.
“I don’t judge you.
I’m fine with anyone and everyone doing and believing whatever they want,” added Mckeen.
After all,Janeis butone,semi-accurate portrayal.
