What’sthe truth ofMarriage or Mortgage?

But one of Netflix’s reality smash hits in particular is a whole new kind of chaotic.

And therein lies the crux ofMarriage or Mortgage,and what makes the show so interesting.

Marriage or Mortgage host Sarah Miller, close-up

Specifically, there were more than a fewweddings that had to be downsizedbecause of the coronavirus pandemic.

“None of this is rational thinking,” she explained.

“It’s completely an emotional decision where you have so many people weighing in.”

Liz and Evan from Marriage or Mortgage

Additionally, making an emotional decision about something as expensive as a wedding can be a bit stressful.

After all, planning a wedding or buying a house should be fun.

Stressful, yes, but still fun.

Sarah Miller and Nichole Holmes on Marriage or Mortgage

But all the lighthearted stuff aside,Marriage or Mortgagestill managed to bring up some more weighty topics.

“It was really nice to be able to bond with Nicole over ourfertilityjourneys,” Precious revealed.

And fertility struggles weren’t the only thingsMarriage or Mortgagebrought up.

Precious and Alex Marriage or Mortgage

Same-sex couple Cynthia and Karla wanted to show viewers that you could find love later in life.

“We wanted to communicate a message that was uplifting and hopeful and affirming,” Cynthia explained.

From infertility to same-sex marriage and so much more,Marriage or Mortgagereally has it all.

Scott and Brittany on Marriage or Mortgage

Because more than anything else,Marriage or Mortgagegot people talking.

That doesn’t seem very fun,'" she explained.

But oneTwitteruser had the right idea.

Nichole Holmes and Sarah Miller smiling on Marriage or Mortgage

“They need to let me on #MarriageOrMortgage.

Hey, that sounds pretty amazing.

The hosts definitely butt heads sometimes, but that’s what makesMarriage or Mortgageso fun!

Sarah Miller and Nichole Holmes having a discussion on Marriage or Mortgage

Additionally, even the hosts are sometimes shocked by the final decisions some of the couples make.

As Miller toldToday, the entire process was pretty fun and eye-opening.

“We get to wine and dine them basically on both ends and have fun,” she explained.

Brittany, Scott, and Nichole Holmes on Marriage or Mortgage

“But at the end of the day, they ultimately have to make a huge decision.

One cool thing is, some of them chose differently than we really thought they were going to.”

That’s not the only way in which Miller and Holmes differ, either.

Alex, Whitney, and others on Marriage or Mortgage

In an interview withToday,both Miller and Holmes expressed just how varying their views were.

“I’m more of a traditionalist,” Miller said.

“I really do believe that marriage is a big deal.

Emily and Braxton shopping for rings in Marriage or Mortgage

It should come first.”

Holmes, on the other hand, was more realistic.

“I’m not anti-marriage, anti-relationship, or anti-love,” she explained.

Sarah Miller on Marriage or Mortgage

Heck, it’s a lot to everyone.

“We had a really good, diverse group of 10 different couples,” she proclaimed.

“You see biracial couples, same-sex couples, old, young, all across the board.

And the hosts of the series hope that watchingMarriage or Mortgagewill help other couples tuning in at home.

Wedding planner Sarah Miller toldBridesthat she believesMarriage or Mortgagecan be helpful for couples in the same boat.

“I do get a lot of flak for it,” she admitted.

“If they kept choosing mortgage, it wouldn’t be a show.

Honestly, it’s based on every single couple and the journey they’ve gone through.”