Mindy Kalingis basically the best friend everyone wishes they had.

Oh, and don’t worry.

You will only end up loving Kaling more after learning some new things about her.

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She is goals, after all.

Her name isn’t Mindy?

Despite having a titular television show, Kaling’s name isn’t actually Mindy.

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That is, herfirstname isn’t Mindy.

According toBritannica, Kaling was born Vera Mindy Chokalingam.

Still, it seems she always went by Mindy.

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He meant so much, to so many, so far away."

Those MCs may regret not trying harder now but, Kaling it is!

In 2005, the then 24-year-old Kaling signed on to write for the show.

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According to aNew York Timesinterviewwith Kaling, she was the only female writer for the comedy at that time.

Before long, Kaling proved her ability to not only write but also act.

Is Kaling similar to the character she portrays?

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In some ways, yes and, in many ways, no.

InKaling’s book,Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?

Kaling went on to share two lists to set the record straight.

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That said, Kaling really does love pop culture according to her interview withThe New York Times.

It turns out that Kelly dating Ryan actually had its roots in reality.

Kaling answered in the affirmative.

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Kaling laughed and confirmed, “What, BJ?

Yes, you’re correct.”

Kaling joked, “You’re not Sherlock Holmes or anything, Howard.”

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So how does Novak feel?

OnThe Queen Latifah Show, he was asked for his response about Kaling’s interview with Stern.

As fans ofThe Officecan confirm, Kaling and Novak have great chemistry.

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However, it takes much more than just that spark to make a relationship work.

Not according to Kaling.

In an interview withGood Housekeeping, she made it clear, “My mom was my soul mate.”

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“I love talking about my mom,” Kaling said, “but I may cry.”

Shortly before Chokalingam passed away, Kaling wrote down her mother’s words of wisdom.

One of which was to “always be your own best friend.”

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“We all thought we would have a couple of years with her.

Eight months later, she was gone.

So fast,” Kaling said.

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She added, “I’m not superstitious but I think my mom had some part in it.”

It makes sense that Kaling’s character, Mindy Lahiri, was loosely based on Chokalingam.

Despite the challenging timing, Kaling was thankful for her work.

“I didn’t have to sit in my grief,” she explained.

Nevertheless, family isn’t family unless it has a little dysfunction mixed in, right?

Kaling and her only sibling, Vijay Chokalingam, are no longer in contact.

Apparently, Chokalingam wrote about how he got into medical school.

His family, including his sister, were none too pleased, according to Chokalingam.

“I love my sister to death, but we don’t see eye to eye.”

A rep for Kaling confirmed toUs Weekly, “Mindy has been estranged from her brother for years.

She was not aware of his decision to apply to medical school under a different name and race.”

She has a “second love” of her life…or maybe third?

Novak interrupted, “Thanks a lot.”

Kaling’s work onThe Mindy Projectis quite an accomplishment.

Still,The Mindy Project, much like Kaling’s relationship with Novak, ended amicably.

Will Kaling go on to find a third (or fourth) love?

Perhaps she already has with Hollywood movies.

Her frustration is understandable.

However, Mindy Lahiri and Kaling are not the same.

“My character being named Mindy is something I think about all the time … “I think it’s a little sexist, actually,” Kaling added.

A whole lot of confidence.

However, that didn’t exactly go down without a hitch.

Nevertheless, “nice” wasn’t going to cut it.

It seems Hollywood agrees with her terms.

Inan interview of Kaling, BJ Novak outs her as a “lifelong McDonald’s fan.”

Novak adds, “You love McDonald’s, I know.”

Kaling laughed and kept on, “I don’t need to live to be 80!”

O’Brien joked, “If you were on their payroll, you’re not now.

‘I love McDonald’s and I accept I won’t live long!'”

“I’m carrying a child …

I’m very, very pregnant,” she said.

She also announced that she would be having a girl.

While Kaling did have plans to keep her pregnancy hush-hush, Oprah of all people!

accidentally spilled the beans on a press tour forA Wrinkle inTime.

According toPeople, Kaling had her baby girl, Kathrine Kaling, on December 15, 2017.