Does anyone really want to see that huge dead fish you caught, my man?

Can you stop with the duck faces, ladies?

At least, that’s the message it sends.

Another no-no is listing turnoffs or “don’t message me if…” lines.

Not only that, but you may accidentally rule out someone who might have been compatible with you.

Similarly, avoid “only message me if…” lists of demands for the same reasons.

Another really bad idea?

And both publications recommend avoiding played-out cliches.

Even if youactually dolove long walks on the beach, venture to find a fresh way to say that.

Find a new way to say these things.

You love to laugh?

Mention your favorite comedian.

You love your family?

Write a sentence about how your grandmother inspires you to be a kinder person.