Friendsis one of those television shows that became so iconic that it defines an entire generation.

The showgave us catchphraseslike “We were on a break!”

and “Howyoudoin'?”

cast of Friends

It has proven to be a timeless hit, with its popularity enduring even today.

But isFriendsthe same witty, hilarious show that we remember from when we were younger?

In many ways, yes.

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It still holds a lot of appeal to viewers.

How can the Friends characters afford these apartments?

This is something completely unimaginable if you’re an adult who knows how expensive New York City living is.

Rachel, Chandler, and Monica on Friends

As of 2020, the average rent for an apartment in Manhattancame in at a whopping $3,790.

So how are they paying rent, let alone covering costs for food and transportation around the city?

When do the characters in Friends go to work?

Chandler in Friends

Even when Rachelis waitressing at Central Perk, she spends more time socializing than pouringcoffee.

Coordinating hangouts can be tough, especially with six people working at vastly different jobs with varying hours.

Yet the gang seems to be able to get together every day of the week.

Ross and Carol in Friends

How do they do it?!

Chandler’s made some pretty manipulative and selfish decisions, putting girls above hisfriendshipsnumerous times.

Hekisses Joey’s girlfriendand ends up having a relationship with her.

Gunther in Friends

Later inFriends, Monica and Chandler enter into a secret relationship after a one-night stand turned into something more.

Ross isfar from thrilledwhen he finds out, but eventually forgives the couple because they’re in love.

It’s not the first time Chandler has hooked up with a friend’s sister, though.

Phoebe in Friends

He may be heartbroken, but couldn’t he show his ex-wife a little bit more sympathy?

We’re talking about a woman bravely coming out as a lesbian in a timebefore equal marriage laws.

Instead, he makes it all about him.

Friends characters Chandler and Ross

He’s also grossed out byhis ex-wife’s breast milkwhich is, frankly, immature.

Women lactate, Ross.

These aren’t the only times Ross is less than supportive of the women in his life, either.

Monica in Friends

After they break up, he dates another woman and is visibly disgusted when she shaves her head.

He treats women like possessions, instead of human beings.

… Maybe that’s why he was so cranky.

Joey in Friends

He had like 15 stops on his commute."

Gunther is clearly dedicated to his job, and he’s also dedicated to Rachel.

Rachel could do a lot worse.

Ben and Ross in Friends

She writes songs about her mother’s suicide, something we know left her devastated, even years later.

Chandler has some deep-seated insecurities in Friends

Chandler is anotherFriendscharacter who is dealing with some serious issues.

Fortunately, as the series progresses, we see Chandler mature.

cast of Friends

Monica’s masochistic career choice in Friends

We know fromflashbacks that Monica was chubbythroughout her teens.

Her overweight past is a running gag throughoutFriends, and younger Monica is shown to be several sizes larger.

She eventually slims down after overhearing a college-aged Chandler commenting on her weight.

Ross and Rachel in Friends

Though, given her past issues with overeating, you’ve got to question her career choice.

It seems like being a chef would be a constant torment, surrounded by tons of food all day.

His dreamy looks make him completely crush-worthy, and he’s even asort-of-celebrityactor!

Joey and Chandler in Friends

He definitely has the coolest job out of his friends.

All this makesthe last episode, in which everyone is partnered upexcept Joey, even more depressing.

Joey may not be the brightest guy, but he’s definitely sweet.

Monica and Chandler on Friends

Joey has watched his friends fall in love, start families, and move on without him.

It’s a tragic end for the guy who seemed to have everything.

What happened to Ben in Friends?

Rachel on Friends

Remember Ben,Ross' firstbornwith ex-wife Carol?

The early seasons feature Ben pretty heavily.

Ross fights for shared custody becausehe wants to be in his son’s life.

He even makes sure that his kidembraces his Jewish heritage, teaching him all about Chanukah.

Ben isn’t even atRoss' wedding to Emily.

Did the producers just decide to ghost Ben’s character from the show and hope no one would notice?

Did Ross suddenly become a deadbeat dad?

Friends has a major diversity problem

This one probably went over your head as a kid.

The Big Apple is a melting pot of cultures, butFriendsdoes a terrible job of portraying this.

Rachel was Ross' first love, and it seems like their relationship was written in the stars.

Who didn’t cheer when Rachelgot off that plane?

As a kid, a love like the one Ross and Rachel have was something to aspire to.

As an adult, the fact that they can’t seem to get their act together is frustrating.

Their squabbles make for a great comedy, but a terrible relationship.

Why doesn’t anyone on Friends ever take public transportation?

Any New Yorker worth their salt knows their way around the public transportation system.

Unless they’re just so buzzed on Central Perk coffee all the time that they run everywhere.

While this is a happy moment for the couple, it’s also wildly unrealistic.

According to the websiteFund Your Adoption, adopting a newborn is not that easy.

The process can be long and arduous, taking anywhere from two to seven years.

Adoption can also be quite expensive, according toAdoption data pipe.

So what’s the deal?

Did she really come by her job honestly?

Or did someone, like her rich father, pull some strings to help her land her big break?