Unless it’s something truly heinous, these moments are usually forgivable.
You’re not good enough
You’re not perfect.
Big surprise, no one is!
Why would you want to remind someone of all of their flaws?
It’s emotionally destructive and completely unnecessary.
There’s nothing loving about this bang out of comment.
Spoiler: they probably aren’t.
You want a relationship that is built on more than sex.
Your job is pointless
We all have opinions about different careers.
Your boyfriend should never talk about your chosen profession in a demeaning and derogatory way.
Your goals are unrealistic
The beautiful thing about goals is that they are personal and our own.
It’s a chance for us to meet our own objectives and follow our hearts.
It’s truly unacceptable, therefore, for your boyfriend to shoot them down.
It can be so scary to share our vision with someone.
It requires a certain vulnerability.
When you let your guard down, it’s extra hurtful when someone is discouraging and critical.
This just should not be happening in a loving relationship.
Pro tip: A partner is supposed to encourage you to pursue your dreams not mock them.
Pro tip: Your body is your own business.
You are the only one who has lived in it for your entire life!
Be happy and comfortable with what you have and ditch anyone who suggests otherwise.
If you’re comfortable and happy with how you look, then who cares, right?
If he doesn’t like it, that’s his own problem to deal with.
This could be an effort to control you by isolating you from the people in your life.
Dealing with exes is one of the most interesting, sometimes challenging, parts of any relationship.
Your relationship should not be compared to his with anyone else’s.
Even the brightest of stars can have their dim moments.
Still, the last thing we need is something standing there waiting for an opportunity to put us down.
You should not have to relive your mistakes on a regular basis.
Why should he think he has the right to judge you?
Do not give in to your boyfriend’s negativity.
Hold your head up high and keep stepping far away from him!
Contrary to some people’s beliefs, this is a team effort.
Pro tip: Never put your fate in someone else’s hands.
This is your body and you should protect it.
Then we make an effort to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
When your boyfriend continues to say hurtful things, you’ll have to decide when you’ve had enough.
No one should sit and listen to a partner belittle and berate them.
