Queen of TV,Oprah Winfrey, andlong-time partner Stedman Grahamhave been together for over 35 years.

According toVanity Fair,Winfrey and Graham first set eyes on each other at a charity event in 1986.

However, as Winfrey recalled toOprah Magazine, Graham “was always with the same girlfriend.”

Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham at Tyler Perry Studios grand opening in 2019

(Yes, I drank a lot of beer then and wore cowboy boots every day.)"

“Tall and handsome, for sure,” Winfrey continued.

“But actually too handsome, I thought, to be interested in me.”

Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham at the Robin Hood Foundation’s 2018 benefit

Boy, how wrong she was!

“The moment after I said yes to his proposal, I had doubts.

I realized I didn’t actually want a marriage.

I wanted to beasked,” Winfrey wrote forOprah Magazine.

My life with the show was my priority, and we both knew it."

Makes sense to us!

The secret to their long-term success?

According to Graham, it works because they want the best for one another.

Speaking onThe Ellen DeGeneres Show, he revealed, “I’m dedicated to her happiness … As he put it, “one and one equals about six.”