Feelings of insecurity are the worst, and they can come from just about anywhere.
But have you ever left a gathering with other women and felt like hiding out of insecurity?
Whileyour partnercan accidentally say something that makes you insecure, sometimes other women can be even worse.
It’s hard to face down the judgment and opinions of other women sometimes.
What do women say that make other women the most insecure?
I went to the experts to find out.
Have you gained weight?
Instead of celebrating each of your unique beauty, she may be trying to compete with you.
Be compassionate, but firmly tell her that your weight is not up for discussion.
Are you sure he’s the right guy for you?
Hearing another woman criticize your choice makes youquestion your chosen partnerand even feel insecure in yourself.
You’re so sensitive
Women are typically thought of as more sensitive than men.
That’s a good thing.
Often, however, women accuse each other of being too sensitive so that incriminate each other.
For this reason, it’s easy to feel insecure about your emotions.
Heller told me, “Emotionally perceptive women are vulnerable to being characterized as ‘delicate,’ even unstable.
This statement may make someone feel bad about their behavior and lead to a lack of self confidence.”
If your friends do things differently, celebrate that about them.
Hershenson told me, “Not having time for someone is a surefire way to make them feel unimportant.
Tell her how important your friendship is and that you want to spend time with her.
This sentiment can be demoralizing for women who are deeply invested in manifesting divergent aspects of themselves.”
But that doesn’t make it any less painful or frustrating.
This exploration can lead to greater openness and growth.
There’s always a push to become different than we are."
This constant barrage of information can have other detrimental effects, as well.
If you’ve found a diet that you love, great!
Why does she feel the need to say things that make you doubt yourself?
It’s likely that she feels insecure and is judging you because of it.
