After all, why be together if you might’t stand someone?
Surely, none of us are perfect, right?
Putting yourself down
It can be hard to accept compliments when people say something nice about us.
That awkwardness is relatively normal even though we should work on saying thank you!
It’s pretty annoying, however, if someone spends much of their day pointing out their own flaws.
Rehashing the past
We’ve all done it.
During an argument, we might pull some relic from ancient history to hurl at our partner.
It can make it really difficult to focus on the present (and your future).
Pro tip: Challenge yourself to be in the here and now as much as possible.
As adults, we’ve earned the right to live our lives on our own terms.
That’s really annoying!
If not, then consider letting it go.
Making yourself the priority
In a relationship, there needs to be a lot of compromise.
Pro tip: Start your discussions by focusing on your partner for a while.
Let them vent and share and, when they are done, do the same.
Continue this way until things feel more equal.
Make a conscious effort to prioritize your attention, especially if your significant other has complained or seems bored.
Pro tip: Once a week, be unplugged from technology for an entire evening.
Grab a board game or spend the night giggling and chatting like you used to when you first met.
Where are we going to dinner?
I don’t know, you pick!
What color do you want to paint our bedroom?
I don’t know, you’re better at that stuff!
What movie do you want to see?
I don’t really care, you choose!
and work on that.
Also, push yourself to try something on a whim.
It will feel exhilarating!
If you absolutely must sample from their meal,askpermission first!
Not only is it common courtesy, but it also lets them know that you care about them.
It’s better to err on the side of caution.
Besides, who drinks enough water these days anyway?
Not only will it mean a lot to them, but it can greatly improve your relationship moving forward.
