Then they present you with a ring.

(Record scratch).

So what’s a girl to do?

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Is it even possible to broach the subject without forever hurting your brand new fiance’s feelings?

Here’s what you should do.

“InWomen’s Health, Jane Greer, Ph.D., relationship expert and author ofWhat About Me?

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They tried their best.

Did you think at first glance that you hated the setting?

Talk to your partner

Here comes the hard part.

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In this conversation, honesty is definitely the best policy.

Then, be upfront about what youwouldlove.

There’s something about that ring that made them buy it just for you.

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If it’s a piece they designed themselves, ask them about their thought process behind the design.

You never know what they might say that’ll make you swoon.

have a go at stick within their budget, however, when choosing a new ring.

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Be sensitive and respectful of their feelings and budget.

And above all, remember: this is a happy time in your life.

You and your partner can fix the situation, together.

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