First, Stillman says to avoid going in with a “specific agenda.”
Similarly, Stillman suggests “lett[ing] the psychic guide the lesson.”
“All mediums are psychic,” Stillman writes, “but not every psychic is a medium.”
Lastly, Stillman encourages you to “terminate any session” with a psychic in which you feel uncomfortable.
First is to “reviewyour current state of grief.”
Second, double-check you pick the “right” person for the job.
When you arrive, attempt to do so with an “open mind and low expectations.”
