Meeting a significant other’s parents for the first time is an exciting but incredibly nerve-racking experience.

So what should you wear?

Of course you want to impress them, but it’s also important to let your real personality shine.

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But “just be yourself” only goes so far as advice in these situations.

It’s your visual language to the world."

So wearing the wrong thing can say even more than you realize.

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“Always steer clear of ensembles that might offend,” she said.

Cruz pointed out that dressing appropriately for the occasion and location is important.

But she warned, “Avoid going overly sexy!”

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Even if things are going to be very casual, there are still things Cruz recommends you avoid.

“Just keep it pulled together to show an awareness of how you care after yourself.

No neutrals, got it.

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So red, then?

So what’s a gal to do?

“Instead, opt for a color found in your iris,” Zyla said.

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Caitlin Bergstein, a Boston-based matchmaker withThree Day Rule, agreed.

“This includes a low cut or revealing top and a short skirt, dress, or shorts.

It can also include skin tight clothing,” she said.

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“This can create the impression that you’re insecure and looking for attention.”

Personal stylist Rayne Parvis agreed and suggested wearing something that “exudes trust, femininity, and loyalty.”

Instead, you could be sending a different kind of signal.

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“You want to look like you care,” she said.

“Wearing something too casual says that you don’t.”

Are leggings pants?

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We all get it.

Leggings are super comfortable and now come in a variety of textures, styles, and prints.

Definitely not the way you want to start things.

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“Play it safe and tone down the extremes,” Sassoon advised.

“Think balance.”

In fact, says Sassoon, balance is key when it comes to everything during this first meeting.

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“you’re free to’t go wrong with classy!”

But wearing too much jewelry or jewelry that’s gaudy or super flashy can be a distraction.

Yeah, best to avoid that.