They say there’s a soulmate out there for everyone.
It’s nothing short of magical.
But just the act of falling in love with a persondoesn’t necessarily mean you’ve met your soulmate.
Unfortunately, that’s just the way things go sometimes.
How do you know, then, if you’ve found the person who’s truly meant for you?
Read on to find out how you will know for sure that you’ve metthe one.
That said, finding your forever person can also be super intimidating, according to psychologistDr.
That nervous feeling is totally normal, and it will pass.
“The part of your brain that’s associated withaddictionlights up when you think about your soulmate.
Love is one heck of a drug!
Additionally, when you find your soulmate, it can have a dramatic impact on your sense of well-being.
“You may experience a sense of timelessness like you’ve known each other forever.”
“In short, you feel fully alive.”
And that is a beautiful thing.
Of course, if you’reasexual, your mileage may vary.
“The stage of lust is driven by an evolutionary basis to reproduce,” she shared withThe List.
Just like that, you’re going to experience an increase over and above your normal baseline libido levels.
That’s when you enter the second phase of falling in love, which is the attraction stage.
There sure is a lot going on!
“In other words, we feel so ‘in love’ that we can’t sleep or eat!”
Erica G. Rojassays that you next move into the attachment phase, which is super important for relationship-building.
Thus the wild ride keeps going, and your body keeps changing in all sorts of new ways.
“Oxytocin is necessary to forming attachments and facilitating human bonding.
So that’s why you alwayswant to cuddle your soulmateand why it feels so darn good.
Who knew hormones were so powerful?
So, what exactly does vasopressin do that’s unlike everything else?
“Vasopressin is a vital hormone that promotes long-lasting relationships,” she toldThe List.
That’s one hard-working chemical!
Vasopressin functions in a particular way when you meet your soulmate, too.
No wonder soulmates feel so good around each other, even as time goes by.
Plus you and your soulmate shouldn’t have issues expressing yourselves intimately to one another.
Finally, your soulmate will alwaystryto make time for you, even if they’re super busy.
Why do people snoop on each other anyway, according to the experts?
Fortunately, when you are with your forever person, the trust will naturally be solid.
“If you never fight, then nobody’s home,” she wrote on herwebsite.
Often couples arrive in my office surprised to be there ‘because we never fight.’
Never fighting means someone is feeling invisible.”
Who knew those pesky tiffs weren’t so bad after all?
To that end, it’s perfectly natural that you and your soulmate will have disagreements.
That’s as it should be, according to psychotherapist Julia Colangelo, LCSW.
“This does not mean easy,” she clarified in an interview withBustle.
“It’s simplyeasierand [more] drama free.”
Hey, lessdramais always a good thing.
“This doesn’t mean that you’re naive about the relationship,” Colangelo continued.
That’s just one more sign that you’ve found your forever person.
“We all experience and fear rejection.
That’s some sagely advice.
So if you’ve truly found the one, total transparency won’t be too difficult to attain.
